Friends nd Flatterers

Hlo everyone this is Akshara ... Hope you all are well nd enjoying ur lockdown vacation.. Today I'm going to write about a very common topic that has been arising nowadays in our community ...yes, I'm talking about the difference between Friends nd Flatterers... So, let's continue... A true friend is said to be the one who stands by one in both happy times and troubles. He/she would be supportive, guiding and compassionate to one, even critical of one if required for one's well-being. On the other hand, a flatterer is fickle-minded and an opportunist or someone who praises people without being sincere. 

 There's a famous people about this topic and it's poet is william Shakespeare or THE BARD OF AVON ...himself 

Poem

Every one that flatters thee

Is no friend in misery.

Words are easy, like the wind;

Faithful friends are hard to find:

Every man will be thy friend

Whilst thou hast wherewith to spend;

But if store of crowns be scant,

No man will supply thy want.

If that one be prodigal,

Bountiful they will him call,

And with such-like flattering,

‘Pity but he were a king;’

But if Fortune once do frown,

Then farewell his great renown

They that fawn’d on him before

Use his company no more.

He that is thy friend indeed,

He will help thee in thy need:

If thou sorrow, he will weep;

If thou wake, he cannot sleep;

Thus of every grief in heart

He with thee doth bear a part.

These are certain signs to know

Faithful friend from flattering for.... 

                                                                     - By William Shakespeare

So... I hope you have understood want i want to express.... 

There are some important points to be noted that will help u to find a Flatterer.. 

1) Put up your Hedges. Establish boundaries for how people can engage you.

2) Accept Compliments and Move On. ...

3)Leverage Relationships to Achieve Outcomes. ...

4)Stay Focused on Results. ...

5) Commit to Consistency. ...

6) Monitor All. ...

7) Confront Equitably. ...

8) Avoid Schmoosers.

So these were some important points that can keep u safe from Flatterers

Time to answer some questions about friends and Flatterers... 

Question 1 Why are faithful friends hard to find?

Answer : Because people in this world are insecure. Because they feel unsafe, they tend to unconsciously betray people. Some people are just, by nature, unfaithful.

Question 2 Why shouldn't we trust a flattering friend like a real friend? 

Answer :We should not trust a flattering friend primarily because a flatterer is not genuine. Such a friend should not be trusted because when we are through troubled times, he or she will not stand with us.

Question 3 What would flatterers say if wasteful?

Answer :I think flatters say "let's recycle it " If one is wasteful. Flatterers would say, "Oh, he is so wealthy!"

Question 4 What does the poet mean by flattering foe?

Answer :The poet says flattering friends means the friends which aren't available in our good time. If we are in trouble, then flattering friends will not stay with us.

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